明報 - 樂在自己喪禮中
美食代奠儀 鼓聲代啲打
2014年12月1日 明報 December 01, 2014 樂在自己喪禮中
美食代奠儀 鼓聲代啲打
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文章日期：2014年12月1日 【明報專訊】未知生，焉知死？「LIFE健康」卻主動「找死」，走訪喪親者、社工、殯殮從業員、輔導機構；與讀者一起直面死亡，目標是活好當下。
「啋！人未死搞喪禮？」近年，有人將「身後事」顛覆為「生前事」。一個提前了的喪禮，熱情輕快的非洲鼓聲取代單調的嗩吶吹奏；賓客攜來的不是哀愁和奠儀，取而代之的是自製美食；主角沒有靜躺棺木，而是穿梭會場。親友的祝福、道歉、承諾到秘密，主人翁在笑聲和哭聲中，親自接收。
「我喪禮‧我主持」，貌似大吉利市，但過來人都能樂在其中。
從英國趕返元朗錦田的老家，Mary剛推開門，撲面而來的是一股死亡氣息。
Mary移居英國20多年。2013年12月，得知弟弟James確診末期肺腺癌，生命僅餘數周，她二話不說便從英國趕回香港。「沒
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